"భాగస్వామి బాధ్యతా?"

We had discussion on happy family. After so much discussion we stopped at this question. We have needed a contemporary answer.

"What might be the possible answer if boy friend asks his girl friend to care his family after the marriage?"

Hence, I have conducted an E-mail survey with some of my friends. They have responded in the following words.

Shamla Medhar (Bangalore)

Yes

Praveen Paul (Hyderabad)

How I treat/ care about my family, I will care your family also....and the same way how u care/love your family you have to treat my family also.....'

Beena M.R (Germany)

The answer depends on the individual.... but usually all girls care for the family she goes in... its not a thing to ask for.... it is something they do even without asking....

Lakshmi Yadav (Bangalore)

The boy friend should not ask this question to his girl friend it should be mutual understanding she has to take care of his house. She has to give respect the whole family and also whatever the problems comes she has to take it as a positive way. Mutual understanding is basement for life. In life we should not think ego, prestige etc

Vijaya Tilagam (Bangalore)

Once she will get married had responsibility to take care of his family. Sorry to say his family that is become our family. The girl should think that's our family. She has to take care of the people what they are doing sister -in-law and brother in-law and also mother in law and father in-law. She is part of our family. Its not that she has to forget her family members, she should build a relationship with our family members, show them good love and affection. Then only appreciated from everyone or else they will feel after the marriage she break the family they will feel.

Anuradha Panthagada (Hyderabad)
It is an obvious answer you will get from her is that she is ready to look after his family as she will become a part of the family. So that it is her family too, so that it becomes their family, no more his family alone, but one thing if the person who is asking her to take care of his family should be ready to take care of her family also, unfortunately it doesn't happen it is always on the girl side to come to his family and settle there so that it seems to be her responsibility only. But a family doesn't mean that living together of two persons, it should be understood that two families should come together and start cope up with each other. I hope u got the possible answer if not let us have a discussion please keep on reflect on the subject, it is really interesting.

Ramadevi A.H (Bhubaneswar)
There are two aspects in it (1) Boy friend should not tell the girl because it is her responsibility to look after parents (2) If boy friend himself is not looking after his parents and expects the girl friend to do so, it is absolutely irresponsible and inhuman in first case. It should go without saying. Looking after parents is mutual responsibility and not just of boy friend's parents but also girl friend's parents

Deepti Zutshi (Delhi)
"I'll be happy to do so"

Mehnaz Siddiqui (Delhi)
One tight slap..
Boy friend should look after his family as it is his responsibility and not his girl friends

My View
The question it self is a foolish question if every thing is going fine. The question raises curtain to many other questions. It is the responsibility of both the couple to care both the families. Otherwise there would not any meaning for our life.